Just one comment to expand on what I said earlier about switches. You don't need serial relay arrangements, you only need a relay to switch the large final current. That's where any arcing at the contacts might occur. Switching done upstream of that will not be done under load and very simple (to use and wire) switches could accomplish that chore. Arguably you don't need relays at all if your switch can handle the chore, but anyway you don't need to worry about the life of switches other than the momentary buttons.
