Hello again,
Well the other day i went to visit the grave site of her mother.
It was very sad because all she has right now is a piece of wood and a little sign with her name on it about 5x7 inches that sticks into the ground. Her two sisters (the other ones i knew back then) where near that site too, so i got to see theirs also. They have beautiful black gloss finish stones with beautiful white writing on them. The one of the sister that sang with her husband long after the five sister group broke up had two guitars engraved in white, just like the two guitars they both played when performing on stage. It was beautiful. I might post a pic or two but i'll have to take the names out to protect my friend.
Unfortunately it took me one and a half hours to find her moms grave. I found the other two within about a half hour but there were no row markers or anything so it was difficult. There was no one around to ask either, and one other person visiting their grandmother didnt know how to find a particular grave either. I was lucky i had a smart phone so i could look up the number of the cemetery, but calling the number all i got was a recording, so i left a message. I had no hope of finding the right site so i drove out and down the street. Lucky for me, the phone rang and i pulled over and answered and it was the main caretaker. She told me how to find the grave but it was not very clear so she said she would drive down and show me. I thought that was super nice of her. Then i went back to the area where the other two sisters were buried and she came by, and just as she drove up i spotted the right grave! What strange luck huh? It was close to the other two, and because of the plot numbering it made it seem like it was very far from the other two (number very much larger than the other two) so at first i did not pay too much attention to the closer graves.
So anyway, the caretaker told me all about the cemetery and how to find grave sites, and that took another hour. She tried to show me on her smart phone but geeze the sun was too bright and i could hardly see the contents on the phone. She was really really nice though, and said she likes to get to know the people associated with those sisters and other folks buried in the place. She knew their story too so it was cool to talk to her about that as well. She also informed me that flowers have to be within 10 inches of the front of the grave, something that would help me later because if you plant them too far out the lawn mower would hit them.
So now a good 2 hours into it, she shook my hand and i drove off and went on my quest to find a flower shop. Lucky i found one a few miles away, and bought a couple nice roses and it came with a fern and some other little white flowers. So i went back and planted them in front of the grave.
I took pictures of all the stones and her mom's grave site. From what i gather, the stone will soon be in place and i will venture back to get some pics.
It is so sad though that when i knew these women they were so alive and bursting with talent and just wonderful to be around, but now they are buried in the ground. Makes you wonder what life is really for after all. I also have pics of them when they were just little girls maybe 10 y/o and so it's like looking at their whole lives in a single heartbeat. Sometimes it just doesnt make sense.
Well the other day i went to visit the grave site of her mother.
It was very sad because all she has right now is a piece of wood and a little sign with her name on it about 5x7 inches that sticks into the ground. Her two sisters (the other ones i knew back then) where near that site too, so i got to see theirs also. They have beautiful black gloss finish stones with beautiful white writing on them. The one of the sister that sang with her husband long after the five sister group broke up had two guitars engraved in white, just like the two guitars they both played when performing on stage. It was beautiful. I might post a pic or two but i'll have to take the names out to protect my friend.
Unfortunately it took me one and a half hours to find her moms grave. I found the other two within about a half hour but there were no row markers or anything so it was difficult. There was no one around to ask either, and one other person visiting their grandmother didnt know how to find a particular grave either. I was lucky i had a smart phone so i could look up the number of the cemetery, but calling the number all i got was a recording, so i left a message. I had no hope of finding the right site so i drove out and down the street. Lucky for me, the phone rang and i pulled over and answered and it was the main caretaker. She told me how to find the grave but it was not very clear so she said she would drive down and show me. I thought that was super nice of her. Then i went back to the area where the other two sisters were buried and she came by, and just as she drove up i spotted the right grave! What strange luck huh? It was close to the other two, and because of the plot numbering it made it seem like it was very far from the other two (number very much larger than the other two) so at first i did not pay too much attention to the closer graves.
So anyway, the caretaker told me all about the cemetery and how to find grave sites, and that took another hour. She tried to show me on her smart phone but geeze the sun was too bright and i could hardly see the contents on the phone. She was really really nice though, and said she likes to get to know the people associated with those sisters and other folks buried in the place. She knew their story too so it was cool to talk to her about that as well. She also informed me that flowers have to be within 10 inches of the front of the grave, something that would help me later because if you plant them too far out the lawn mower would hit them.
So now a good 2 hours into it, she shook my hand and i drove off and went on my quest to find a flower shop. Lucky i found one a few miles away, and bought a couple nice roses and it came with a fern and some other little white flowers. So i went back and planted them in front of the grave.
I took pictures of all the stones and her mom's grave site. From what i gather, the stone will soon be in place and i will venture back to get some pics.
It is so sad though that when i knew these women they were so alive and bursting with talent and just wonderful to be around, but now they are buried in the ground. Makes you wonder what life is really for after all. I also have pics of them when they were just little girls maybe 10 y/o and so it's like looking at their whole lives in a single heartbeat. Sometimes it just doesnt make sense.