thanks very much for suggesting these solutions KISS. i will chase them up with enthusiasm and let you know how i go. (It might be a while but I will.Way back somewhere in this thread you said:
Our local hospital has a lot of "wave here" type of switches for door openers.
e.g. Look at the Next Gen switches here: http://www.disabilitysystems.com/door-controls/handicap-door-activation.html
Reneasys (sp?) has a lot of uP based cap sensor stuff.
Take a look here https://www.itead.cc/itead-touch-network-intelligent-switch.html as well. They had some basic breadboard cap switches somewhere on their website at one time. I don;t have time to look right now. This one is unique.