It’s risen above that now gone Urban. 10 years from now it will have a meaning all to its own.This expression always bothers me. Jim Jones actually used a product named “Flavor Aid”. A cheaper version of Kool Aid. But somewhere along the way once the name got mangled then everyone repeated the mistake.
You may wonder why I care, I’ll tell you. I was living in San Francisco in 1978 when the People’s Temple crisis came to a climax at the mass suicide at Jonestown. My best friend was working at the Ag dept lab across the bay. His boss was Dr. Layton whose son Larry was the gunman who killed people at the nearby airstrip when people tried to get away. You can look up the details. I hope you appreciate my sensitivity to the expression. Thanks
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Drinking_the_Kool-Aid
Doom and Dangerous is best described in the way my Daughter felt about it. When I told her she then began this dramatic statement “I’ve really enjoyed our relationship now and want you to know how much I’ve enjoyed your time with me” as if I had Terminal Cancer or something.Drinking the Kool-Aid" is an expression used to refer to a person who believes in a possibly doomed or dangerous idea because of perceived potential high rewards. The phrase often carries a negative connotation. It can also be used ironically or humorously to refer to accepting an idea or changing a preference due to popularity, peer pressure, or persuasion. In recent years it has evolved further to mean extreme dedication to a cause or purpose, so extreme that one would "drink the Kool-Aid" and die for the cause.
I realize how you feel about it, but maybe I’ve just been through more trauma than most which makes me numb to most things that irritate or depress others.
My daughter criticizes me about that as well, non-emotional. But, if under extreme stress is where I operate best. Can’t win with her.
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