What makes you think you don't need a flyback diode with a BJT?I had trouble sourcing a FET capable of handling the current without it having a fly-back diode
What's a pre-Farnell day?But obviously that was in my pre-Farnell days,maybe you can suggest a candidate?
Can't you look at them now?
After some further simulations I think the best way to do what you want is to use a gate driver such as this, driving a P-MOSFET such as this.





