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strantor

Joined Oct 3, 2010
6,875
I know how it can be [...] smiles are hard to come by.
Why is this? Is the stone face like an element of machismo in Russian culture? Seems odd the women are the same. Is growing up in Russia so arduous as to make one cold to the world?
but St. Petersburg is really nice. Most people are kind, [...]I usually end up helping foreigners buy plane and train tickets
Again, why? Why is St. Petersburg different? And are you different because you grew up there? Different culture?

I don't get it. You know the stereotype; the humor-less Russian who never smiles and is never too far away from a bottle of Vodka. I only ever knew one guy from Russia and he was a really nice guy, intelligent engineer, always smiling and very helpful. So I assumed the stereotype was either out dated or outright false. But after having been through the airport a few times on my way back and forth to Asia, I now lean toward it being accurate. Once while talking to my Russian friend, he mentioned that all his friends back home are drunkards with no future, and said that the reason is because it's so depressing there, and that's why he left. But it seems there are more depressing places to live (although I never tried living in Russia) where the people don't carry such a reputation for being bitter. Hence the question, why?
 

Brownout

Joined Jan 10, 2012
2,390
Why is this? Is the stone face like an element of machismo in Russian culture? Seems odd the women are the same. Is growing up in Russia so arduous as to make one cold to the world?
It isn't customary to smile in every culture. I've heard this about the scandinavians. Though they are generally happy and content, they just don't smile that much.
 

justtrying

Joined Mar 9, 2011
439
St. Petersburg has three huge shipyards; perhaps that is where the cranes are.
It is both - shipyards and the city is building outwards :) Beautiful city, many historical buildings have been restored

It is not customary to smile at strangers. First time I came to N. America, I thought it was very odd - people smiling at each other. Once you get to know people closer you will find that they often have a great sense of humor and are very friendly and open, but you have to cross the barrier first, it is a bit of a leap of faith.

I have just recently read this book and find that it describes russians quite well.

I don't think there is an answer to the question why people of different cultures seems to carry common characteristics, maybe sharing a common bond of some sort, a sort of marker. I found it difficult to be around most russians in russia (and here), their way of life is too high stress and dramatic for me, west coast has mellowed me out even more than what I was :eek:
 

tracecom

Joined Apr 16, 2010
3,944
guess ,who is me
I guess that you have on the blue hat.

I guess that the picture was taken in the Yunnan Stone Forest.

I guess that the person in the purple is a tour guide.

I guess that the red flag is to help you find the guide.

I guess that the guide isn't Chinese.

Did I get any correct?
 
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