Funny how we humans imprint on others.

That was the way it was with my second wife. Saw her across a room and it was like, "wow". She was good at 'seeming' to be in love, but I was. Knew her for around 3 months and asked her to marry. Her own mother took me aside one day and said don't marry her, and I laughed about it. Ends up mama knew best, she sucked the life right out of me and some money.

 

I know this is about as far from electronics as you can get. But I just want to share with my community.

I’m 65. Divorced after a 38 year marriage. I’ve been seeing someone for almost 2 years.

And I broke up with her tonight. It’s been almost 45 years since I’ve experienced this. I didn’t want to break up, but the relationship was becoming increasingly unhealthy for me.

I’ve had a few drinks after talking to her. The pain is real. We still love each other, but I can’t continue.

Anyone feel like being supportive?

How did I miss this? Good grief. Well been there done that, girlfriend 2 years after last divorce it was based on sex and her wanting other men, sex was great but a severe lack personal time together, we just moved apart. Finally met my wife we've been together now 25 years, seems like yesterday. She's only 1 year younger, while the girlfriend was 10 years younger. I think sometimes you need someone who is more likely to share history that we all remember back in the day.


Good Luck, it still could happen.

kv

Edit: Oh, BTW I didn't ready all the posts, sorry out of time.