thanks for clearing that up for me, I didnt fully understand the concept of floating gate. youre right, the gate is connected to the drain with a resistor, so that I guess doesn't make it floating..There is really something wrong in the way you look at MOSFET switches. First of all if you connect a resistor from gate to source , it is not floating. Having a floating gate means it is not connected to anything.
The basics is really simple:
Apply a positive voltage from gate to source within the Vgs limits and it will conduct.
Apply 0V (low impedance source, not floating) or a negative voltage from gate to source and it will cease to conduct. Unless you apply a voltage to the source that is more positive than the drain voltage in which case it will conduct through the body diode.
How you denominate your 1000V voltage in your circuit doesn't matter, what I just said holds true. (n-channel MOSFET)
you know, the thing that messed me up is how make the gate of that mosfet:
1- either connected to ground (so it conducts),
2- or just have it pulled down by the gate-source resistor, without connecting it to ground or VCC or anything other than the gate-source resistor (so it doesn't conduct).
If I can achieve that, my problem is solved.
I was thinkig of using a relay to control that gate, either connect it to ground or just no contact with ground or anything except the gate-source resistor (what I used to call "floating")...

this way the PWM will control whether the mosfet gate is only connected to the RGS resistor (which pulls the gate voltage down to -1000 to make the fet turn off) or either connect the gate to ground (which then makes the transistor conduct).
it is just that I have never seen any mosfet being driven this way before.
what do you think?
