The chris person apparently created an account on this forum just to ask this one question and never came back. I doubt he will come back with an answer now.did you ever get anywhere with this Chris? I'm in the exact same boat. Same model, manufacturer says they won't talk to me because I'm not a technician, dealer says it can be done but complicated and doesn't recommend, I just want to add a damn manual switch because hunting for the fob sucks, and you can't relock after you unlock.
I've tried a million different configurations trying to bypass the onboard relays and use regular relays, all sorts of things. I keep blowing fuses from backfeed when adding just a generic 5 pin switch and can't get anything to work. It's driving me crazy. If you got some answers I'd love to hear from you. Hit me up at airbender 9273 at the g's of mail dot com if you wouldn't mind.
But maybe we can help. With a couple of DPDT buttons, we don't need to know how the lock module works specifically. No going back and forth, check this, check that, try to make sense of nonsense drawings, etc. We know the locks have two wires and you switch polarity on them to actuate the lock, and that's all we really need to know in order to implement a sort of "brute force" approach. This takes the lock module completely out of the picture any time you press one of your manual buttons. Any time you're not pressing one of the buttons, your lock module can do its thing.
Please accept this toddler drawing to illustrate the concept.
The green wires represent constant power from the battery (through a fuse, not shown). The blue wires represent the normal/intended path from the controller directly to the lock actuator, but we've spliced a couple of DPDT switches into the circuit.