The Rheem I have now has a vacation mode, you can check the temperatures in the upper and lower tank, you can tell which element is on. It has a performance mode and an energy saving mode. It has a leak detector and add-on WiFi capability that lets you control the heater from a smartphone.What electronics are in a water heater now?
It also logs problems like no water, defective temperature sensors, over temp of the electronics. The two heaters I've installed in the past month shutdown sporadically due to the electronics overheating. The prior model was recalled because the control panels were burning up.
All the bells and whistles in the world are kind of pointless when a water can't reliably provide hot water without the risk of burning down your house.
Whirlpool has a model that adapts to your hot water usage pattern; presumably to save power by not keeping it at temperature when you're not going to use it in the near future.