YES... It is under max switching frequency. Because RELAY will only ON when i/p voltage exceeds some voltage level .I can offer no suggestions without the over all context for the function. And some circuit documentation.
I don't believe that you understand the actual problem. But I don't know for sure, because I have no details.
Do you understand what switching frequency means? And can you please state what the relay switching frequency is going to be?
A mechanical relay has a switching frequency limit for various reasons. If you are driving it faster than that limit.....contact arcing is of little concern.
Also the type of load that you are switching makes a big difference too.
ALL the details matter.
About the load, I have connected 1 KW heater to it.