The qm people definitely do not agree with you that there is no (virtual) ether. What do you think their quantum soup is? Another name to replace a name for the same thing that fell into disrepute. Your statement about the polarized vacuum similarly serves the same function as the ionized plasma, or, if you prefer, the virtual soup. Is it a rationalization, or is your space polarizable or not? If so, it serves the same function as the ionizible plasma. If not, your argument for the vacuum capacitor mechanism collapses. We'll discuss it over a soda on Monday.Well yes, plasma waves (something I deal with daily) can be longitudinal because there is a media (electrons/ions) for them to travel. I think most of us agree in the 21st century that there is no magical aether that EM waves travel in so longitudinal scalar waves are impossible (except in the minds of some Tesla fans). Now c is not a limit for everything electromechanical in Maxwell equations but it is for single interactions. For instance you can change the polarization current density 'as a group' faster than light speed to generate EM waves but the waves themselves can't travel FTL so you generate a electromagnetic shockwave similar to a sonic boom.
http://casa.jlab.org/seminars/2004/slides/singleton_040629.pdf
If this is useful for anything only time will tell.

