Hello....Thanks for the reply's,
I'm not sure if I have completely explained what is happening.
I'll simplify,
I have a +5 voltage with a ground coming from an RCA jack. The center is + the outer is the - This is the control line,
It plugs into the line I want to control. (assuming I can figure out how to interface)
the controlled line has a +13 voltage and it's own ground (also RCA same as above) that needs to be grounded to turn on.
The +5 voltage grounds itself when I tell it to.(and goes back high again when told)
The device I need to control needs to be grounded to turn on and then go back high again when the +5 goes back high, in turn letting the 13 go back high and thus turning the device off.
Hopefully that makes some sense.
Mike and myself have provided you with working solutions already. They are both similar using an opto coupler. Mike is a LOT older and even more experienced than myself, so I would go with his solution....

