Hi Boggart,Hi Timothee, when driving large current loads you want to do several things. The first is to minimise the Rds (on resistance) of the FETs, the FETs I suggested have a much lower Rds than the IRFZ44, so less heat produced when fully conducting.
The next thing you want to do is minimise the switching time, which is the time from non-conducting to fully conducting, and back again. This is the linear region and the FET has a much higher resistance when in this region, so more heat produced, albeit for a short time period. To minimise this transition time you need FETs with as low a gate capacitance as possible (gate capacitance slows transition time because the gate has to be charged and discharged each time the FET is switched) and you also need to be able to drive the gate with a decent current level to charge and discharge it rapidly (as someone else here mentioned).
So, a single FET with the appropriate specs will have a lower gate capacitance than multiple parallel less-capable FETs (most likely), but you need to check the specs sheets and go from there. A FET gate driver is a good idea, as someone else mentioned, but I've generally found at lower switching frequencies that it is less necessary as the FET will still spend most of its time fully on or fully off.
So, I would look at a beefier FET, one designed specifically for this sort of use, and if that doesn't solve it then add in a FET gate driver to speed up the switching.
Wow such simple words yet so effective, thank you for summarizing it all, i feel like I KNOW how to drive mosfets now ! I'm do this asap and let you guys know how it went
Timothee