cleaning part 2 ?

Wendy

Joined Mar 24, 2008
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You sir, do no have a teen aged girl in your life. A singer (16 I think, but started at 13) whom all the young girls swoon over. Filthy rich.
 

justtrying

Joined Mar 9, 2011
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fashion... just get the bieber haircut and 14 year olds and their mothers will be all over you. A word of caution, may result in lazy eye...
 

t06afre

Joined May 11, 2009
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Looking at the picture you posted, I now know a little more about you, t06afre, and that I find you at the Norwegian Opera, with girls, watching Justin Bieber, tells me even more. This photo is from tonight, in Norway, where young Mr Bieber is doing a free concert.
Me on a Beiber concert. No I do not think so:eek: But it was a lot of young girls. Having an emotional overload
 

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Mathematics!

Joined Jul 21, 2008
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I am just going with the direction of the thread

My findings on girls and most people it is not so much what you say as is your eye contact / smile /body language thats about 80% for most women I have talked with.

Obviously some girls may value some words more then others or alot less but it is essentially not hesitating , smiling , constant eye contact and good confident body language for the most part.

I have to say body language mostly the eye contacting part and the ability to keep your eyes and words in sync without slipping ...

This is always been very hard got to break that barrior.
But I have to say If you are polite about it and just say excuse me can I ask you a personal and private question and say do you want to fool around ....etc
They normally say no thank you if you don't look like a serial killer or some rapist. Even one said I would normally with you but I am involved with somebody / married. I think they appreciate the honesty and sort of a complement indirectly.
I took it as a positive note and simple said no problem I completely understand best of luck to you and smile back one last time looking here in the eye when I said that to hopeful reassure her that I am not hurt or care about the NO answer.

I have to say where I failed with some of them is in the eye contact/ body language. So then I started resorting to less first approaches then saying basically do you want to F. I started talking to them asking them questions and trying to focus more on keeping eye contact for at least as long as they looked at me or if I cann't do that at least til the count of 10. From just this I am getting tons of girls numbers. Pretty cool...

U have to fail before you succeed.

Though I have to say maintaining this eye contact / body language /...etc short term I can do pretty well but it is the long term that is something I have to figure out... Since I am the type that constantly worry about every thing and always second guess myself so I have to break that way of thought some how some day to start becoming happy and more social.

I don't really want to sound like all I want is the P word but training myself this way builds being able to be more social to anybody. And yes the P word would be good here and there.

The only thing is to some how figure out to become more humorous/funny as well as speak/pronounce well.
I think the more you speak to women the better you will get at it so you don't loss train of thought ,...etc
It is a work in progress and would love to break thru to be the alpha male when I want to/need to and then the quiet sensitive type but I don't really now how far I can take all this. But I keep telling myself even when I am nervous deep down inside the reward out ways any rejection in the long term
 
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strantor

Joined Oct 3, 2010
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You're thinking about girls and screwing too much to get a girl and screw. It's going to seem impossible to do, i know, but what you need to do is "stop putting the pussy up on a pedestal" (see 40 y/o virgin).

If you're focusing on making eye contact and posture and body language, you're going to look like you're a nervous guy who's focusing on making eye contact and posture and body language, and you're NOT going to look like a confident, easy going guy that chicks want to be with.

I recommend drinking in the presence of girls; it helps you lighten up, talk, break the ice, whatever, then when you see them later, the ice is already broken and you don't have to act like a dweeb in front of them. Girls who are drinking are also statistically like 13X more likely to have sex with you than sober ones. But don't get falling down, puking on yourself drunk. that's not cool, and you don't want chicks assosciating you with vomit, or retardation.
 

GreatG

Joined Jun 1, 2012
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I am curious if anybody knows if there is any difference in quality in
useing this things

1) bar soaps or liquid soaps like body washes , sundial /soft soaps, foam soaps or are the relatively equal in killing germs ?

2) Is there a difference between soaps and antiseptic liquid (i.e the squirt on with no water intervention ) or do they relatively kill the same germs/amount/concentration.

3) similarly for mouth wash and tooth pastes is there really brands out there that are better then others or are they pretty much equal/paying for the name brand? (I have heard that most brand name cereals where a rip of to the no-name brands of equivalent cereals just wondering it in the context of mouth wash and tooth pastes/dental care there isn't really a calories type of system for those :)

Though if I was guess I would take the fluoride ones

4)
Similar question to question 3 but for hair products like conditioners , shampoos ,...

5) I have been trying to make my teeth white or as best white as possible
by useing baking soda... though I am very cautious not to over do I am only going to do it for month at most doing every 3 or 4 days.

But I was curious if anybody could get them white from another product apart from going to the dentist and paying the thousand of dollars .
I will probably do that when I get more money as well as maybe reseal them again just in case.

6) Other then the different smells of different deodorant is there any better brands for preventing precipitation or are they all pretty much the same just pick out the smell that smells the best.

Thanks for your tips and comments.
This thread is more about cleaning pertaining to keeping yourself clean and in the best heath /shape of your life long term for everything
On point number 5 I wanted to add the abrasives found in some of the toothpastes available are the things that wear down the enamel coating your teeth.Once the enamel is broken down....teeth rot. You could always use this guide http://www.goodguide.com/categories/152770-toothpaste that also has review, it may help you decide what works best for you.
 

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Mathematics!

Joined Jul 21, 2008
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True for the teeth whiteing I am going to use the doctor for that anyway
they are not bad so it really doesn't matter and I haven't been doing the baking soda thing for this reason only did it twice then said **** it don't want to cause other issues down the road.

As for
If you're focusing on making eye contact and posture and body language, you're going to look like you're a nervous guy who's focusing on making eye contact and posture and body language, and you're NOT going to look like a confident, easy going guy that chicks want to be with
I agree there has to be an equal balance so they don't see you trying to hard or hiding the nervousness ...etc
But this again comes with just time I would imagine... the more you talk to them the more you will just feel more comfortable around them kind of thing...
The hard part is to not second guess your self and start think in your head what to say , or how I should act ,...etc Once it comes natural then your set...

The problem is if it can ever come natural for some guys... but I am going to see how far I can push this. Because I am not all after the P ever time it would also be nice to find somebody who cares and wants to settle down / travel the world or do fun things to someday. ( I am not totally shallow all the time as well as not a male slut either though it would be nice to have that ability when/if I want to use it)
 
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