I've yet to see any moderator with that skill on any forum.In a world where almost everybody is crippled by their emotions and prior habits/beliefs etc you maintain a very high level of logical detatchment and a great ability to separate your personal self from the situation at hand.
Being separated by thousands of miles and two screens helps as well. Let alone the fact that you can formulate your answer for as long as you like before you post it.It's a rare skill, you may be part Vulcan.![]()