I used to be a tutor back in the 1980s at the local college. I mainly tutored math and chemistry. Math up through calculus, chemistry except organic. Chemistry involved many concepts, but math was math no matter how complicated it got.
I got so I could see the difference between someone with a real mental deficiency and someone with an attitude problem. Most of my students fell into the latter category. I used to tell them that their grade was proportional to time spent studying, and then those with a really bad attitude would become hostile to that notion, and me. And when I told them math was fun, they'd go ballistic sometimes.
Be all that as it may be, I developed a philosophy -- or, should I call it a realization -- that my job was not to teach people how to think; but, rather, how to solve problems. Our ability to think has been given by God. I can't make them any better at it, really. But I've had teachers that thought otherwise. These believed they were actually teaching their students how to think by a method of giving them, what they thought was sufficient information to solve a problem, but not a demonstration of how to solve that problem.
I disagree with this type of teacher. God gave us the ability to think, not the teacher. And so, rather than teasing my students into finding the solution, I just showed them the solution. And, I suppose they were like me: In seeing the solution step by step, they developed the ability to comprehend mathematics. My job as a tutor, then, was to walk them through the solution so they understood it. My job was not teaching them to think. There is a big difference.
I brought this up here in the forum in the hope of dissuading those "tutors" who think they are helping the student by teasing him. I have seen all too much teasing like this in here and sometimes I wonder if the teaser actually knows how to solve the problem. I hope to encourage those who do know how to solve the problems to show their students step by step so that he or she can actually learn something. I have sometimes thought that a "tutor" actually does know how to solve the problem, but is reluctant to do so outright due to a mistaken notion he is teaching the student how to "think." This is nonsense.
For those of you "tutors" who actually understand what they are talking about, show the solution and explain it. You can't do any better than that. For those "tutors" who don't really understand, please refrain from posting at all.
I got so I could see the difference between someone with a real mental deficiency and someone with an attitude problem. Most of my students fell into the latter category. I used to tell them that their grade was proportional to time spent studying, and then those with a really bad attitude would become hostile to that notion, and me. And when I told them math was fun, they'd go ballistic sometimes.
Be all that as it may be, I developed a philosophy -- or, should I call it a realization -- that my job was not to teach people how to think; but, rather, how to solve problems. Our ability to think has been given by God. I can't make them any better at it, really. But I've had teachers that thought otherwise. These believed they were actually teaching their students how to think by a method of giving them, what they thought was sufficient information to solve a problem, but not a demonstration of how to solve that problem.
I disagree with this type of teacher. God gave us the ability to think, not the teacher. And so, rather than teasing my students into finding the solution, I just showed them the solution. And, I suppose they were like me: In seeing the solution step by step, they developed the ability to comprehend mathematics. My job as a tutor, then, was to walk them through the solution so they understood it. My job was not teaching them to think. There is a big difference.
I brought this up here in the forum in the hope of dissuading those "tutors" who think they are helping the student by teasing him. I have seen all too much teasing like this in here and sometimes I wonder if the teaser actually knows how to solve the problem. I hope to encourage those who do know how to solve the problems to show their students step by step so that he or she can actually learn something. I have sometimes thought that a "tutor" actually does know how to solve the problem, but is reluctant to do so outright due to a mistaken notion he is teaching the student how to "think." This is nonsense.
For those of you "tutors" who actually understand what they are talking about, show the solution and explain it. You can't do any better than that. For those "tutors" who don't really understand, please refrain from posting at all.
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