Correct.So the reset starts the timer with a high instead of a low? The trigger is for example the output (pin 6) of an optoisolator H11D1M.
Look at the schematic I postedCan you explain why I would need a diode? Pins 3 and 4 are not connected to each other. If pin 2 is not used for the trigger then is that left open? Which way round would the diode go?

Not critical in this circuit.Also how critical is the total input resistance to the base of Q1 such that if the divider R1 was set to 5k, would I need to reduce R2 accordingly or is there a lot of flexibility around that for Q1 to saturate and operate effectively?
Ok so the pot can roam it’s full range from 0-50k. What about having to connect the pot to ground?Not critical in this circuit.
Setting R2 at 47K should suffice for a 5 to 50 volt trigger.
The pot should not be connected to ground, as it is acting as a rheostat (variable resistance), not a potentiometer.Ok so the pot can roam it’s full range from 0-50k. What about having to connect the pot to ground?