I’m experimenting with an SPDT solid state relay (LCC120) and a timing circuit based on a 4060BE, as a student demonstration, and seeing how a 12V signal can be routed to an alternative path using a short pulse (12V, ~5ms). The circuit is as shown.
I want the relay to trigger, to change which output the input is connected to, when the trigger pulse arrives and then to remain that way for a short adjustable period of 30-200ms before reverting to the original output. The outputs will light LEDs and so for most of the time the LED connected to Output 1 will be on and then, after the trigger pulse arrives, the other LED will be on for the set duration before the relay flips back again.
My question is about how to use a 4060-decade counter to achieve this switching. The 4060 puts out a high after a set interval, based on its oscillator frequency and the chosen Q output, whereas I need to maintain the initial trigger high to keep the relay flipped and then a low after the preset interval for it to revert.
Perhaps I can use the 'Reset' input 12 as a sort of enable or I can’t use this and I need some form of latching relay instead but I haven’t found one in the small Dip 8 format like the LCC120.
Any ideas?

My question is about how to use a 4060-decade counter to achieve this switching. The 4060 puts out a high after a set interval, based on its oscillator frequency and the chosen Q output, whereas I need to maintain the initial trigger high to keep the relay flipped and then a low after the preset interval for it to revert.
Perhaps I can use the 'Reset' input 12 as a sort of enable or I can’t use this and I need some form of latching relay instead but I haven’t found one in the small Dip 8 format like the LCC120.
Any ideas?