With the input of several helpful forum members I came up with this switch.

It had one major design flaw and one minor one.
The major design flaw is it was not short protected against the moron field installer shorting the output wires. I had the whole thing working on my bench, went to install it in the field and pulled a boneheaded maneuver, took out the FET, a pin on a pic and the psu I built. Is there any way to short protect the output without sacrificing too much efficiency?
The second minor annoyance is that the FET should be off when the gate is high. Anyway to fix this other than placing an FET in front of it? This is a minor flaw as I can fix this issue in software but it would be nice to remain compatible with the original store bought charge controller that is installed.

It had one major design flaw and one minor one.
The major design flaw is it was not short protected against the moron field installer shorting the output wires. I had the whole thing working on my bench, went to install it in the field and pulled a boneheaded maneuver, took out the FET, a pin on a pic and the psu I built. Is there any way to short protect the output without sacrificing too much efficiency?
The second minor annoyance is that the FET should be off when the gate is high. Anyway to fix this other than placing an FET in front of it? This is a minor flaw as I can fix this issue in software but it would be nice to remain compatible with the original store bought charge controller that is installed.