Watched several videos but just can't figure it out... I am trying to learn soldering. How do I do it? Do I first heat the surface and then rub the soldering wire to it? Or do I touch the soldering wire to surface and then heat right in the middle? And what about the cable I will solder to that surface, that also needs pre soldering on it ? How do |I do presolder on a thin wire it seems impossible. I am totally confused and it looks like I need 4-5 hands for this job in the first place. To my knowledge, there is nobody with 4 hands, so then how do people do all this? Tell me the sequence of what touches what and where.