A sad commentary,some prisoners have more emotional connection to women than other

men. The women know where the guys are and seek them out. That comes under the life

is not fair,I wonder.

 

Even online dating sites are better than nothing.

Don't look down on online dating sites. I use them. Not everyone on them is a looser.

 

Off topic is growing in more ways ,more than numbers.Its the internet age

before it passes you by use it.You don,t have to devote your life to a stool.

That can be a bar stool or a workshop stool,experience life. The communications

will be better for every one. No one has it all. That has been proven.

 

By the way Spinnaker been there done that (more than i like it). So here is song cheer up, you old tomcat http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=B5MXGGcIbkI

 

Don't look down on online dating sites. I use them. Not everyone on them is a looser.

Gee, thanks.

 

You want a woman’s view? Well you got it so listen up! 1) Be happy with yourself. If you aren’t content with who/what you are, you’ll never be happy with someone else. 2) Be what you want that other person to be. For example, if “fit” body is an important feature for her, make sure you are, too. You want honesty--be honest. 3) Look for someone who shares your values and hobbies. 4) A word from experience, look for someone very close to your own age. Someone much older or younger will not share the same life experiences (remember watching John Glenn walk on the moon?) and you will have to be willing to make major adjustments when one of you ages or becomes infirmed. If you go for the age differential, be willing to stick it out because it will be difficult at times. 5) Make sure you have a good credit rating and don’t have extreme spending habits. 6) Don’t carry emotional debt either—let the past be the past. 7) Embrace your family. Girls like guys who have a good relationship with their family. 8) Take a chance on sharing your feelings. 9) If you’re a geek that’s great, but don’t do the Almighty Wizard of Oz routine and act like she is an incompetent idiot regarding such things. Patiently explain what you do/like in terms that are understandable (think of yourself as a teacher). 10) Mature/career oriented females will look at guys almost like they’re being interviewed for a job—work history, education, criminal record, desire for kids or not, etc. 11) Be kind and caring—that’s what “love” is really all about 12) and don't worry about being "sexy" enough, when you're in love it will take care of itself!
I’m going to close by sharing something my “geeky” husband (beenthere) wrote almost 20 years ago. While it may not sound very romantic, read between the lines. “ My Marriage Goals—1) To appreciate more fully the joys of life through sharing; 2) To diminish the burdens of life through sharing; 3) To experience things impossible otherwise due to sex or family background; 4) To have a focus for energy and creativity outside of self; 5) To be able to realize a “better” life through shared incomes; 6) To share ourselves and be free to be perfectly intimate.”

 

Thank you very much for your input 1chance. That's some great information, and it's nice to have it come from a lady

 

Yeah, somehow I knew you would show up and give us your side of the story. Thanks for this.

 

Yeah, somehow I knew you would show up and give us your side of the story. Thanks for this.

I have never been short on opinions!

 

The grass isn't always greener. One of my BFF's broke up with his girl after 10 years. She was perfect! Blond, smart, decent body, pretty, and just plain nice. He broke up with he after all this time and basically screwed her over. So I decided to make a play for it. Everything was great till she started talking. I found out she was sleeping with all her drug dealers for drugs, then just started sleeping with everyone. Its like as soon as she was single she turned into a dumb, hoe hoe. So sometimes it better if you never took that shot. I would of preferred to of never made a play and not known how messed up she is.

 

remember watching John Glenn walk on the moon?

Nope. But I remember watching Neil Armstrong doing it.

 

Nope. But I remember watching Neil Armstrong doing it.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?feature=player_detailpage&v=RMINSD7MmT4#t=27s

 

http://www.youtube.com/watch?feature=player_detailpage&v=RMINSD7MmT4#t=27s

HA! Saw it while it was happening! Ooops, guess I'm showing my age now

 

Well that is no mystery. You are magnet after all, she could not help but be attracted to you.

But just watch that stuff it will rot your brain. Didn't you ever see that episode of Sienfield when George had to give up sex? He became a genius.

nothing that far, don't worry, I still have all my mental capabilities

and sorry, but seinfeld was before my time.

 

Nope. But I remember watching Neil Armstrong doing it.

Aghh! What perverse satisfaction you must get from correcting my errors!

 

Aghh! What perverse satisfaction you must get from correcting my errors!

At least I didn't do the Wizzard of Oz thing.

 

Thanks for that... BTW, The Wicked Witch (of the west) was my hero(ine) long before the musical Wicked. Surprised or not?

 

Thanks for that... BTW, The Wicked Witch (of the west) was my hero(ine) long before the musical Wicked. Surprised or not?

given the creepy cat avatar... not really

 

Thanks for that... BTW, The Wicked Witch (of the west) was my hero(ine) long before the musical Wicked. Surprised or not?

My fav movie. Loved it as a child, loved it even more as an adult.

 

My fav movie. Loved it as a child, loved it even more as an adult.

maybe it's a generational thing.
I really couldn't get into it.