Wow yes have to google everything but thankyou for your help!I have a vague concept here, but none of the details. I'll try to explain and see if this helps.
I've heard too many different descriptions of the loads to be clear on what they are. LED, lamp, room lights, I'm not sure, so I'll just call it load A and load B.
Let's say load A is the one with the remote control, and the one which can essentially take the power away, only when it needs it.
So, run one leg of the power to load A through a current transformer as a means of detecting when it's drawing power. With an appropriate burden resistor and an RC filter, we can easily get a simple low voltage signal indicating whether or not load A is drawing power.
Now we run that low voltage signal through a BJT or MOSFET (maybe two, including a required logic inversion) which controls a relay that controls power to load B.
With this setup, you'd get the following:
I don't see any way for both devices to be in control, as a few of the posts above seem to suggest. However, if one load can be the master, it should be possible to make a circuit that defeats the other load any time the master load is active.
- Load B can be on any time (presumably still controlled with some manual switch as well,) except...
- Any time load A is turned on (via its remote control,) the logic circuit disconnects power from load B so that only load A is on.
- If load A is turned back off, power is automatically available to load B again.
- Essentially load A is in control. It always takes priority.
This is far more complicated than the simple DPDT relay/switch ideas others have shared, but if it turns out that the remote switching can't be tapped into, this might get the job done.