I can see where you will have some problems. Doing what you want to do is relatively simple, the biggest problem is making it inexpensive. The problem I see with IC based solutions is whichever of them you choose it needs to be placed in a probe with a compression fitting to mount in the tank. So while the IC solutions are cheap once in a stainless steel probe they become slow responding and expensive.My application is pressurized boilers, such as those used in small "prosumer" espresso machines (typically <600mL), so the response time required would have to be pretty fast. While I agree that the 6mm probe would be far too slow, it gives me some hope that I will be able to find a IC based temperature sensor (which addresses most of my off the shelf accuracy needs without calibration) that can be potted into a thinner probe.
I was originally looking at thermistors for their fast response time, however if I develop a precision temperature controller based on thermistors, I would need to calibrate every unit I build.
A Google of "thermistor probes" will bring up dozens of hits, none of which are really inexpensive. Again, thermistors are cheap right till we embed a tiny fast responding one in a probe, then they become expensive.
Finally you get to thermocouples which are relatively inexpensive and can be placed in a small diameter stainless sheath or probe with a compression fitting and used in a tank. They will have a pretty fast response, not sure how fast without looking it up.
You can do a Google of "Thermowells" and see about rolling your own. That comes down to buying blank tubes and stuffing them with whatever you choose and potting them. Use a stainless tube and use compression fittings to mount in the tanks.
Ron