If I made confusion. There is no doubt the snubbers made the solution beside that I modified the code in such a way to handle itself if the noise appear for example if the snubber were absentDear all, as maxHeadRoom pointed, today I purchased two 0.22uf 275v caps and a 100ohm resistor,wired all in series and tested the project it runs 90 complete cycle without max232 latch and no mcu reset. I didnt run this much correct amount before therefore it mean the snubber across the coil gave me solution for me. Infact I have upgraded the code such that it disconnect max232 before a contactor switched off.
Thank you everyone!