MOSFET calculation help.

jfets in general and jfet switchers in particular have lower gm so the error in omitting 1/gm is bigger.

(vertical) mosfets in general have high gm (from low single digit s to low double digit s), measured at hundreds of ma and up, thanks to their parrallel construction: a large v-mosfet is essential a combination of hundreds of small v-mosfet.
I already noted that high current rated FETs have high gm, and that taking Av to be Rd/Rs is appropriate under that circumstance.

some numbers, all measured at Id=0.5ma:

mosfets:
IRFP140: gm=100ms, 1/gm=10ohm;
IRF510: gm=75ms, 1/gm=13ohm;
BS170: gm=6.1ms, 1/gm=165ohm.

jfet switcher:
J112: gm=3.9ms, 1/gm=259ohm;

with a RS=3.3kohm, > 20x that of the highest 1/gm, the error from omitting 1/gm is minimal.
We all agree that high current FETs have high gm, and that if gm is large, the gain of the OP's circuit is given with good accuracy by Rd/Rs.

kind of like we typically assume Vbe is constant in varying Ic for bjts, people typically do NOT factor in Vgs changes in gain calculation for mosfets.
Then why did you give a formula "Av = delta Vd / delta Vgs", which explicitly factors in Vgs changes?

For BJTs gm is normally so high (38500 μS per mA of collector current) that a gain formula involving only load resistors (neglecting gm in other words) is appropriate. But, if a BJT is operated with very low Ic ("starved" mode), then gm must be taken into account.

and this example shows you why.
People typically would NOT use high current FETs in the circuit under discussion in this thread; the drain current is only .5 mA after all. They would use something like the 3N157 I cited earlier, with a gm as low as 580 μS. Then 1/gm = 1724Ω, and omitting gm from the gain formula results in a substantial error.
 
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