I think I will go for the PICkit 3 Debug Express .. http://www.microchipdirect.com/ProductSearch.aspx?Keywords=DV164131
!!! if anybody got other better suggestion , let me know within the next 12 hours, gonna order it tomorrow morning !! !
thank u everybody of ur help !!!
Good choice. That is what I picked.
You might also want to consider buying from www,j1sys.com
They have a package deal with ZIF prototype sockets and the programmer.
The demo board from microchip is nice but you do not really need it.