What you are looking for is pretty common and as mentioned from any of the companies mentioned.its switches to trigger something on a remote output but would have no data sent through it.
on the panel is either a rs 232 rs485 or a printer output for a receipt printer, i want to extract the data from any of these outputs to a live log/terminal e.g when address 4 device detects a fire the panel displays the name and zone number of the alarm.
then once i can successfully exctract that data i may use some form of wifi module for arduino to transmit to a live terminal feed on tablet/phone
Before I retired we installed such a system. I didn't have much involvement but when there was any kind of an alarm, and we had plenty, I received a text. Additionally I could access the system anytime from anywhere over the web. We only got text and email during any alarm trip, anything like fire, flooding, low air pressure and a bunch of other things. Mostly things which fell under facilities engineering. In your case I would ask the people who put in the system about notifications. They should be able to fix you up with any add on things you may need or want. There are ways to roll your own depending on the sensors used but you would likely do well with a turn key off the shelf solution.All of the major alarm manufactures, Simplex, Honeywell, Silent Knight, etc offer GSM communication for their systems.
Ron