I am wiring up some 3 way switches in my camper van. I finally found a 12v switch that I can use in a real 3-day setup: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B09BKVTVF8/ref=cfb_at_prodpg?th=1
Wiring diagram that works exactly as I need it:

I'm running into an issue with one set of lights -- the switch will only handle 5 amps, and I have two 5 amp lights strung together. I want to add a 5-pin SPDT relay, but I can't figure out how to get it wired. Will this work for what I need?

If so, how do I wire it up?
Wiring diagram that works exactly as I need it:

I'm running into an issue with one set of lights -- the switch will only handle 5 amps, and I have two 5 amp lights strung together. I want to add a 5-pin SPDT relay, but I can't figure out how to get it wired. Will this work for what I need?

If so, how do I wire it up?

