A few minutes after I posted that, I was reflecting on it and I thought to myself, "you know strantor, I bet that's going to be quoted in bold font." It wasn't technically accurate. If private schools were partially subsidized it would be, but they aren't that I'm aware of. What I should have said was "you pay a premium."No. You don't pay the difference. You pay the sum of your tax liability (for public education) plus the additional cost of private school. This is patently unfair, as my child is not a "load" on the public school system.
Whether one with no children (either in private or public school) should be required to fund public education is a different, debatable question.
Everyone who pays taxes pays for something that they would be upset about if they knew about it, and everyone who pays taxes pays for something that doesn't directly benefit them. Can't make everybody happy. This isn't a defense of the government or the tax code; I think it's rotten to the core, but just a thought. No matter how good the system is, you can't make everybody happy, and you can't be fair to everyone. There's just too many people with too many conflicting interests.
I am trying lately (most of the time) to not focus on the bad (like that I'm paying double for child care ) and focus on the good (that I can almost afford a better education for my daughter). This helps my stress level a lot more than seeking the truth.