We’re in our mid twenties.
We started dating about a month ago, and we only met each other once a weekend due to me being on exams vacations.
We bonded pretty well and I expected her to wait just one more week for my exams vacation to end so we could spend more time together.
However, she continued logging into dating websites during this month..
A month after we started dating (which was last weekend), she went to someone’s apartment (whom she just recently met in some dating website) and they were kissing.
She immediately confessed about it, but I couldn’t make a fresh start with her.
It’s not just because of that kiss, but because even after we changed our status to ‘in relationship’ (which SHE initiated it), she kept logging into the dating websites.
Now, she’s truly sorry, said it won’t happen again.
On the one hand, I’m not sure it was an one-time tripping because as I said, there was more involved than the kiss itself.
On the second hand, we did meet each other just once a weekend and it was hard for her.
I’m wondering whether she deserves a second chance.
My main fear is her cheating on me again a year from now, and it will be a serious waste of time.
I'd appreciate your opinions.
10x.
We started dating about a month ago, and we only met each other once a weekend due to me being on exams vacations.
We bonded pretty well and I expected her to wait just one more week for my exams vacation to end so we could spend more time together.
However, she continued logging into dating websites during this month..
A month after we started dating (which was last weekend), she went to someone’s apartment (whom she just recently met in some dating website) and they were kissing.
She immediately confessed about it, but I couldn’t make a fresh start with her.
It’s not just because of that kiss, but because even after we changed our status to ‘in relationship’ (which SHE initiated it), she kept logging into the dating websites.
Now, she’s truly sorry, said it won’t happen again.
On the one hand, I’m not sure it was an one-time tripping because as I said, there was more involved than the kiss itself.
On the second hand, we did meet each other just once a weekend and it was hard for her.
I’m wondering whether she deserves a second chance.
My main fear is her cheating on me again a year from now, and it will be a serious waste of time.
I'd appreciate your opinions.
10x.