So, I was at a club yesterday And I meet this girl and her friends... I basically chilled with them for most of the night. what I am trying to figure out is I know this girl likes me but I cann't figure her completely out yet. First she kept touching my inner thigh and that usually in my book is a good thing. So I basically tried to kiss her but she mostly gave me the side of her cheek. So I didn't persist that much with it and just kept it touchy feely. So also would tell me extra info or private info like I am really from etc etc but I am just telling those guys I am from yada yada And for like 15 mins or longer she went to the bathroom with her sister... Then we went to the club I did ask her and all her friend when I first sat down who was involved/had boyfriends.... The girl that I am talking about said she was just just starting a relation ship... I kiddingly said was it with a guy by the name of my name...etc jokingly she just laughed but didn't say No. So after all this we went dancing and at the end of the night they asked for my phone number so I gave it to them... I felt I did to much already so I left it up to her (that might of been a poor mistake but F it if she likes me she will call at least once ) On another note: The other girl a few nights ago I asked for her name and number though we didn't spend more then 5 minutes together. I gave that one a call and she hasn't got back to me yet so I felt that I would try it the other way around. I already got shot down with the kiss (a little bit) so I figured why not let her call me. Though I am curious why she was so touch feely but not kissing friendly maybe she really does have a new relation ship but even if she does then why would she be feeling me up and accepting being felt up by me. She even showed me her underwear but that was after I showed her mine because of been asked to show. Any comments on what is going on here.... Anyway if she doesn't call then F it again I am going back to try and pick up another one. I have to say she was older but very very hot (supermodel hot)... And I am getting better about this stuff. Basically have just one light drink to make you less nervous but not drunk The don't think to hard just act if a bad outcome occurs just move on... Smile and ask open ended questions / listen ,...etc I am actually so glad that I am learning to just not fear any girl situations Even around some of there guys I have had them say sometime shes with me ...etc etc Normally if it starts to get more involved then that a simple just move along... I have been shot down a ton and I have to say each time I just see it as less of an issue and laugh it off... And I am finding more and more I am getting closer and closer to my goal Which is being the most attractive confident guy in the places. I have to say I can see right through most girls intentions its funny how girls can pretty much get at least one guy to give them what they want. Question 1 So how far should I give them what they want ... even though I know some of them are just toying with me a little. If I don't given in at all they may just say F it I will just find somebody else.... if I give in to much they might say F it this guy is P whipped. So there must be a time when to give and went to not.... I can tell you all the toy games ,...etc but I cann't tell you in what situations will you not play into them. The girl that I am talking about in this thread she never really played to many games with me to much... Except one another guy in the dance club came up behind her dancing and she whispered get this guy off me/ lose this guy. Also at the bar she would always rest her head on my chest which I kind of liked. The only problem with her is if I found out she had kids... for me I don't care how hot you are I am not getting in a relation ship with kids (especially not mine).