I never in my life ever expected to be typing such a post as I am now but here I am doing it.
I have found that even a chat room Forum is not immune to Human Nature as well as Human Ego and the Human instinct for some to assert Dominance.
One would think that something as simple and insignificant as far as it relates to the realities of a persons everyday stresses as a chat room would be seen as too insignificant to effect people to any real extent but it does.
In fact chating online has become just as real as talking to a person face to face...but has it? In the real world many things that maybe said between people would probably not be said as when a person is online...they are safe at home or in a place far from those who they chat with. They do not worry about how a person might physically react to insults or other like behavior...and this in effect gives them the equivelent of Drunk or High Talk or shall I say...Net Talk.
Thing is...some feel so safe and sheltered talking in such a manner online in ways they would NEVER EVER talk to a person face to face...they allow themselves to fall victim to their own modified behavior and feel that nothing can touch them. This is NOT SO and if some people knew the kind of people I have had experience with...they would immediately realise that making an assumption upon who and what a person is online is not only bad manners but possibly dangerous.
I have been around...around the World and I can tell you that what YOU think is nothing will always mean SOMETHING to someone else. To assume you are A#1 and untouchable is self defeating and I follow the rule...NEVER ASSUME ANYTHING ABOUT ANYONE OR ANYTHING.
The present day psychology of how a person posts on the internet is more about how they can right a wrong done to them at sometime in their lives as the number of us just trying to have an enjoyable debate or conversation seems to dwindle as it is replaced by those who want nothing more than to find a possible mistake or weakness shown by another and exploit it however they can.
I am basically a nice guy. I enjoy debating and conversation and I have no need for anyone to believe what I post nor does it bother me if I am proved wrong as it allows me to learn something. Still...none here really know my true nature or reality as well it is not intelligent to confuse a persons good nature with weakness.
Now I take objectionable posts sent my way with a grain of salt...but I just want to let other members here know...there are people in the World who are no where NEAR as forgiving as I am...and they will react violently to such tripe as is their nature. Fortunate for me...I have been around and have great experience in such matters...I can tell very easily and quickly that there are some here who do not have such experience and are young and naive as to their ability to understand or detect such possible dangers.
When a person deals with another unknown Human Being...ANYTHING IS POSSIBLE....and that is a lesson I have paid for dearly to learn. I hope no one here ever has to learn as I did.
Split Infinity
I have found that even a chat room Forum is not immune to Human Nature as well as Human Ego and the Human instinct for some to assert Dominance.
One would think that something as simple and insignificant as far as it relates to the realities of a persons everyday stresses as a chat room would be seen as too insignificant to effect people to any real extent but it does.
In fact chating online has become just as real as talking to a person face to face...but has it? In the real world many things that maybe said between people would probably not be said as when a person is online...they are safe at home or in a place far from those who they chat with. They do not worry about how a person might physically react to insults or other like behavior...and this in effect gives them the equivelent of Drunk or High Talk or shall I say...Net Talk.
Thing is...some feel so safe and sheltered talking in such a manner online in ways they would NEVER EVER talk to a person face to face...they allow themselves to fall victim to their own modified behavior and feel that nothing can touch them. This is NOT SO and if some people knew the kind of people I have had experience with...they would immediately realise that making an assumption upon who and what a person is online is not only bad manners but possibly dangerous.
I have been around...around the World and I can tell you that what YOU think is nothing will always mean SOMETHING to someone else. To assume you are A#1 and untouchable is self defeating and I follow the rule...NEVER ASSUME ANYTHING ABOUT ANYONE OR ANYTHING.
The present day psychology of how a person posts on the internet is more about how they can right a wrong done to them at sometime in their lives as the number of us just trying to have an enjoyable debate or conversation seems to dwindle as it is replaced by those who want nothing more than to find a possible mistake or weakness shown by another and exploit it however they can.
I am basically a nice guy. I enjoy debating and conversation and I have no need for anyone to believe what I post nor does it bother me if I am proved wrong as it allows me to learn something. Still...none here really know my true nature or reality as well it is not intelligent to confuse a persons good nature with weakness.
Now I take objectionable posts sent my way with a grain of salt...but I just want to let other members here know...there are people in the World who are no where NEAR as forgiving as I am...and they will react violently to such tripe as is their nature. Fortunate for me...I have been around and have great experience in such matters...I can tell very easily and quickly that there are some here who do not have such experience and are young and naive as to their ability to understand or detect such possible dangers.
When a person deals with another unknown Human Being...ANYTHING IS POSSIBLE....and that is a lesson I have paid for dearly to learn. I hope no one here ever has to learn as I did.
Split Infinity