The IC chip was invented in the USA. The standards were set in the 60s, around 50 years ago, maybe longer. Given these facts 0.1" is a hard standard. This isn't going to change. If you want to do electronics you need to get over it, and yes, metric doesn't work well with inches, but if inches are the standard then you need to know and get comfortable with both as required. The standards are just that. This isn't even an issue of the USA being a holdout, it is an issue of billions (trillions?) of parts having been made over the last half century, with more being made every year because if you tried to change now it would cause an even bigger mess. I like using protoboards, I can only visualize trying to mix and match metric on them.