I have fallen, or rather, well, u can say risen to the state of ultimate responsibility. With great powers comes great responsibility's, even though I am on the verge of great responsibilities I have yet to find the great power that leads it. I need mature advice and suggestions on this matter, I am asking everyone, which includes ya' ol' timers . As you know I, we are building our house and is almost half way and we have exhausted all the bank accounts. It came to this that we should take loan and like I said before it got approved. What I never anticipated was my Dad's blood pressure. It shot into his head. He got cold feet and nausea. Why ? Cause, the governments approved our 1.5mil loan. He is having doubts that he would never repay it and this would of course torment him even in his grave. What he never gave a second thought on was that the kids are behind him to repay the loan. Oh well !!! that Incident passed away and he never took took the loan. months went by. He manage to convince our aunts husband to get a bank loan approval and this guy is really nice. He even lend some money to get the work going while we process the bank loan. Why bank loan ? lower interest. If we were to pay the first one in 20 year installments, we would have paid double the amount. Even I never thought of that, no wonder Dad almost fainted. So now, the bank loan got approved, two day's later his blood pressure hit the the ceiling. Same thing, same nasty thoughts and chilled spines. I just Sigh ! ..what to do... The work is going on slowly since around half a mil was lent by Aunt. We, the kids, decided to make him happy and to get the loan from Islamic bank which dies not take interests but they only provide 80% of the amount and we have to keep 20% in their bank as collateral. Since Dollar rate went high, building materials price has doubled even though the stock these m******rs had was old and has got nothing to do with the current events. So, after recalculating everything thing, he had to make increase the loan amount due to price soaring. This time his blood pressure shot thru my ceiling, and I live one floor above. What to do,..what to do.... He get's cold feet every time, even now about the things that makes me giggle. I am more aware of things than any one else in the family. So I decided to take his stress off him, since I can cope with stress far better than any one ... . The problem is HOW ? How do I relieve his tension ? How do I take away his stress ? I want him to be tense free from everything but How can I do that... I am willing to do anything. He is the legal owner of Our Land. So he has all the power. I cannot do anything if he refuses, this is the law here. He, being owner has to deal with the loan and it's repayments and talk to well u know, contractors. What to do ....oh what to do......?