Before I got married, I always imagined that when I had a kid, I would teach him/her things that other parents don't. I imagined sending my kid to school on the first day of kindergarten already reading, writing, and doing math.
As it turned out, I married a woman who already had a 5 year old, so I missed that opportunity. On top of that, my 5 y/o stepdaughter didn't speak English. She's 6 1/2 now, and she's already fluent. I know she is very smart and has a lot of potential, but...
Something that's been bugging me lately is her preoccupation with what I call "mental junk food." I can't seem to interest her in a book if it doesn't have a pink cover and/or isn't on the topic of fairies. She had a book fair at school today and I went with her to help her pick out some books. What they're doing these days is attaching blister packs of beads, bracelets, stickers, and random cheap shiny crap to the front of books to entice kids to buy them. Some the "books" don't even have pages; they're just book-shaped boxes of worthless trinkets, selling for $36.99. This clever marketing ploy has my daughter hook, line, and sinker. As we walked though the book fair, all she did was bounce back and forth between these pseudo books. I ended up choosing books for her from the "educational" section which was only one book stand.
It's not just books. Clothes, movies, food, toys. She immediately jumps to the thing that is pink. The uncomfortable pink shoes, the disgusting looking pink cookies, the stupid looking pink fairy DVD, and on and on. I want to get her interested in the comfortable, durable shoes. The educational DVD, or at least a movie with a plot. The toy that stimulates thought, whether pink or not. But it's a losing battle.
Marketing gurus have me over a barrel and seem to know my daughter better than I do. I've seen what comes after the fairy and princess stage. Next, they'll be brainwashing my 10/11/12/13 y/o daughter into thinking she needs to wear several layers of makeup and near-prostitute looking clothes to school. They will turn her against me when I refuse to equip her with an Iphone 8. They seem bent on evolving her into a shallow, dull woman who cares more about her cute accessories and her looks than her education. At this rate, I'm afraid they might win. I have to find a way to make her interested in pursuing ventures that make her a better, smarter person. But I don't know where to start.
Any ideas?
As it turned out, I married a woman who already had a 5 year old, so I missed that opportunity. On top of that, my 5 y/o stepdaughter didn't speak English. She's 6 1/2 now, and she's already fluent. I know she is very smart and has a lot of potential, but...
Something that's been bugging me lately is her preoccupation with what I call "mental junk food." I can't seem to interest her in a book if it doesn't have a pink cover and/or isn't on the topic of fairies. She had a book fair at school today and I went with her to help her pick out some books. What they're doing these days is attaching blister packs of beads, bracelets, stickers, and random cheap shiny crap to the front of books to entice kids to buy them. Some the "books" don't even have pages; they're just book-shaped boxes of worthless trinkets, selling for $36.99. This clever marketing ploy has my daughter hook, line, and sinker. As we walked though the book fair, all she did was bounce back and forth between these pseudo books. I ended up choosing books for her from the "educational" section which was only one book stand.
It's not just books. Clothes, movies, food, toys. She immediately jumps to the thing that is pink. The uncomfortable pink shoes, the disgusting looking pink cookies, the stupid looking pink fairy DVD, and on and on. I want to get her interested in the comfortable, durable shoes. The educational DVD, or at least a movie with a plot. The toy that stimulates thought, whether pink or not. But it's a losing battle.
Marketing gurus have me over a barrel and seem to know my daughter better than I do. I've seen what comes after the fairy and princess stage. Next, they'll be brainwashing my 10/11/12/13 y/o daughter into thinking she needs to wear several layers of makeup and near-prostitute looking clothes to school. They will turn her against me when I refuse to equip her with an Iphone 8. They seem bent on evolving her into a shallow, dull woman who cares more about her cute accessories and her looks than her education. At this rate, I'm afraid they might win. I have to find a way to make her interested in pursuing ventures that make her a better, smarter person. But I don't know where to start.
Any ideas?