Does this mean choosing a very large size capacitor (when a smaller size would be sufficient to reduce ripple to the desired amount) is not recommended -- as you mentioned it would result in a larger recharge pulse of the capacitor -- which would be a greater load on the transformer resulting in greater voltage drop on the transformer due to its internal ESR?You are looking at a couple of things causing a volt drop, the natural impedance of the winding and the recharge pulse of the capacitor when a load is placed on the output.
Looking at your measured size of the transformer and the estimated core size, I think a drop of the kind you are seeing is possibly inevitable.
Like I pointed out in the previous post, the larger the cap for a given load, the energy of the recharge pulse (current) is larger, hence you will see a drop on a transformer used around its maximum Va.
BTW, if you have done all this so far, adding a couple of windings is as simple as feeding the wire around the existing winding, if there is room.
Probably 1 layer would do it.
Max.