There's an alloy distributor that I get called out to every month or so because they have an automated saw that has gremlins in the control system. The saw loads pipes, advances them down a conveyor, cuts them to specific length, then spits them out the other end onto another conveyor. It's all automatic, but an operator is still required to program the recipe for different pipes, make sure the machine has plenty of pipe on the input side, and make sure it doesn't get logjammed on the way out. I've been out there probably 5 or 6 times, and every time I go there, I work with their saw operator, Nick.
I get the impression from talking to Nick, that he probably grew up in a trashy place on the wrong side of town. His speech is sort of "ghetto," but I don't hold that against him, because unlike most operators of downed machines who just sit around playing Candy Crush on their phones until something is requested of them or I get the machine running, since the first time I went out, Nick has always been full of questions. A guy with a thirst for knowledge; not very common in kids his age - probably 19 or 20 - and especially not the ones who talk like he talks. He follows me around like a puppy, bugging me about this or that. He seems to be an underachiever - like he's too smart to be a saw operator. I told him that and he agreed, and expressed boredom with his job. He was excited when I told him that you don't need a degree to do my job. He said he was very interested in the inner workings of the machines and that he would like to learn to do what I do.
I encouraged him to study electronics on his own time, and it was apparent that he had been doing so. I also encouraged him to look for an apprentice technical job, and he said that he was looking. I tried to teach him as much as I could on our short visits and I gave him advice and he told me about his progress on every visit. We talked about some personal things. He told me that he got his girlfriend pregnant and that he had married her with plans of taking care of her and the child. On my last visit, he said that he had gone to the community college and inquired about technical programs and that he was going to enroll in something this fall. He hadn't decided if he was going to go full time, or keep working and take night classes.
Every time I go back there, I hope Nick isn't there. Not that I don't want to see him, I just hope to see that he's moved on to bigger and better things. I got called out there today, and I was very hopeful this time, since school has started. I was curious to see if he had followed through with his college talk. So I go in, and there's a new operator. I was relieved to see that, and I inquired about Nick. I was told that the reason for his absence was nothing to be happy about; he had recently been shot in the neck by his father in law and was now completely paralyzed.
Nick's brother and his father in law had gotten into an altercation that escalated into a murder-suicide. Nick tried to break it up before shots were fired, and ended up taking the first bullet - in the neck, I assume in his spine. Then the father in law shot the brother several times in the chest, killing him, then took his own life.
So now Nick gets to live out the rest of his life, however long that may be, in a bed. He will never be able to talk again, or write on paper. Nobody will ever be bugged by incessant questions, or hear a thing he has to say. A bright spark has been quenched. And his child will grow up without, or without much of a father.
This is affecting me a lot more profoundly than I would have expected. I've only met Nick a handful of times, but the news hit me as if he were a life-long friend. In hindsight, I sort of viewed this kid almost like a little brother; that may sound a little extreme given the limited extent that I knew him, but I feel that way nonetheless. Having been in a quasi-mentor position over him, I feel like I shared in the responsibility for his success or failure to an extent. I feel that he deserved to have a good life and I would have gone out of my way to help him achieve that, just for the joy I would have taken in seeing him succeed. I'm a sucker for the proverbial "pick yourself up by the bootstraps" story, and I believe that's exactly what he would have done, given the chance.
Sorry to dump on you guys, but I'm having a hard time with this and I just needed to get it off my chest.
I get the impression from talking to Nick, that he probably grew up in a trashy place on the wrong side of town. His speech is sort of "ghetto," but I don't hold that against him, because unlike most operators of downed machines who just sit around playing Candy Crush on their phones until something is requested of them or I get the machine running, since the first time I went out, Nick has always been full of questions. A guy with a thirst for knowledge; not very common in kids his age - probably 19 or 20 - and especially not the ones who talk like he talks. He follows me around like a puppy, bugging me about this or that. He seems to be an underachiever - like he's too smart to be a saw operator. I told him that and he agreed, and expressed boredom with his job. He was excited when I told him that you don't need a degree to do my job. He said he was very interested in the inner workings of the machines and that he would like to learn to do what I do.
I encouraged him to study electronics on his own time, and it was apparent that he had been doing so. I also encouraged him to look for an apprentice technical job, and he said that he was looking. I tried to teach him as much as I could on our short visits and I gave him advice and he told me about his progress on every visit. We talked about some personal things. He told me that he got his girlfriend pregnant and that he had married her with plans of taking care of her and the child. On my last visit, he said that he had gone to the community college and inquired about technical programs and that he was going to enroll in something this fall. He hadn't decided if he was going to go full time, or keep working and take night classes.
Every time I go back there, I hope Nick isn't there. Not that I don't want to see him, I just hope to see that he's moved on to bigger and better things. I got called out there today, and I was very hopeful this time, since school has started. I was curious to see if he had followed through with his college talk. So I go in, and there's a new operator. I was relieved to see that, and I inquired about Nick. I was told that the reason for his absence was nothing to be happy about; he had recently been shot in the neck by his father in law and was now completely paralyzed.
Nick's brother and his father in law had gotten into an altercation that escalated into a murder-suicide. Nick tried to break it up before shots were fired, and ended up taking the first bullet - in the neck, I assume in his spine. Then the father in law shot the brother several times in the chest, killing him, then took his own life.
So now Nick gets to live out the rest of his life, however long that may be, in a bed. He will never be able to talk again, or write on paper. Nobody will ever be bugged by incessant questions, or hear a thing he has to say. A bright spark has been quenched. And his child will grow up without, or without much of a father.
This is affecting me a lot more profoundly than I would have expected. I've only met Nick a handful of times, but the news hit me as if he were a life-long friend. In hindsight, I sort of viewed this kid almost like a little brother; that may sound a little extreme given the limited extent that I knew him, but I feel that way nonetheless. Having been in a quasi-mentor position over him, I feel like I shared in the responsibility for his success or failure to an extent. I feel that he deserved to have a good life and I would have gone out of my way to help him achieve that, just for the joy I would have taken in seeing him succeed. I'm a sucker for the proverbial "pick yourself up by the bootstraps" story, and I believe that's exactly what he would have done, given the chance.
Sorry to dump on you guys, but I'm having a hard time with this and I just needed to get it off my chest.