I just checked my notes, I was orig running fosc/4 which was top SPI speed of 10MHz, whcih worked ok but would give a pixel error after a couple hours of screen writing.
I then changed it to fosc/16 which is SPI at 2.5MHz and no problems after that.
My notes also say the top speed is officially 4MHz so i probably looked it up in the display datasheet after that!