Okay, is 5 us on enough to light the LED. Do I read the data sheet wrong? It looks like it suggests 100 us on and 1 ms off. But that would not explain blowing up transistors.Are you talking about the voltage on the gate or the voltage on the drain to source?
No I wrote 5us on and 100us off, but not that I know what the duty cycle is for these pulses anyway I have changed it to what Ronv said 10us high(on) and 90us low(off)