Hey @#12 How about this: Speaking for myself (and, I daresay @Aleph(0) and, perhaps, given time, ≈50% of the population) - If you refrain from regarding "us" as "them" we will refrain from regarding ourselves as "us" and, hence, you as "them" - Deal?Let me guess: Constant reading between the lines, trying to decipher the imaginary, "How you are trying to make her feel"?
Females do that. Males are baffled by the basic concept that facts cause feelings.
Best regards
HP